Emily McKnight February 12, 2017 Dating, Love, Relationships Where are all the good men at? Emily McKnight February 12, 2017 Dating, Love, Relationships As a dating and relationship coach, I am often asked "Where are all the good men at?", especially from African American women. I am here to admit, there IS a shortage, you aren't crazy, and I am here to explain WHY and what you can do about it!